My name is Wesley VanMeter, I am a funeral director from Oklahoma. I have served in the funeral industry since 1997.

As a funeral director, for many years I have sat across from a hundred of grieving families that have to make some of the most difficult decisions of their life. Some knew exactly what their loved one wanted in terms of final wishes, but most have no clue. I created this site to help families and individuals learn their options and learn more about a subject that not to many people know about. Also to help people plan ahead if they so choose. Whether you choose cremation, traditional funeral, green burial, or burial at sea, there are many different options available to help celebrate a life lived.

My Funeral Options is dedicated to helping you to be informed about the planning and memorialization process so that either your funeral service or the funeral service of a loved one will capture the character of a life lived.

I cherish family with the utmost respect, I am a family man with a wonderful wife and 6 beautiful daughters, I hope my insight will give you the knowledge to choose the right funeral home or mortuary that will best meet the needs of your family in your area and help you to make your pre-planning experience simple.

By planning your funeral/memorial in advance you will greatly relieve the stress that your family would have otherwise had to go through to try and choose the options they "think" you would have chosen. Whether you have been diagnosed with a terminal illness or whether you are just getting older, planning ahead is something that will benefit you by bringing peace of mind as well as monetary savings, it will also benefit your family and friends. They will know with 100% certainty what your wishes are.

Most of the time when people choose a casket it is while in a state of mind that is less than optimum, because it is usally done during the greiving process after someone has passed. Learn different styles, sizes, colors, and personalization options.